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Mission

Tribe 12 connects people in their 20s/30s to Jewish life and community in Philadelphia today so they will choose to stay connected tomorrow.

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Our Values

There is a Jewish Community for Everyone

Morgan, Point Breeze

When Morgan’s name pops up in Philly media, which it often does, the term entrepreneur is never far behind. Tribe 12 is proud that we played a part in her professional journey to build the app MilkCrate, but even prouder of the part we played in her Jewish one. When Morgan applied for the Tribe 12 Fellowship she was very honest about how Judaism was complicated for her, having grown up in an interfaith family. Five months later, Morgan had embraced Judaism as an important part of her identity, was participating in Interfaith Family events which reflected her mixed heritage, and had developed lasting friendships — both professional and personal — with a close knit group of Jewish women leading the way in the local entrepreneurial scene. She did not come seeking Jewish community, yet that is what she found. 

Radical Hospitality Creates Safe Space

Rachael and Jonathan

Rachael Chou reached out to Tribe 12 warily. She had just moved from Boston to Philly with her fiancé Jonathan, an Asian American, and their experience in Boston’s Jewish community had been that his identity was questioned as soon as he walked into a room. Rachael had always been very connected to Jewish community throughout her life — synagogue, youth group, all the basics — and she was looking for opportunities for the two of them to find their Jewish community together. When Rachael reached out to Tribe 12 and told us her story she was quickly assured through words, but even more significantly through actions, that there was a place for both of them at Tribe 12. They became regulars at events, with Jonathan joining an informal “Jewish” basketball league with guys he met, and together Rachael and Jonathan became part of a volunteer board where they developed friendships they still maintain a decade later.

Disrupt the Ordinary

Josh and Rachael, East Passyunk

The Silverbauers love Purim. What’s not to love? The holiday is celebrated as a mash up of Halloween and St. Patty’s Day with a story full of drama, romance, intrigue, and sex! One day, Josh and a few friends decided to write a musical spoof of the Purim story to perform for friends in his living room. Fast forward a few years, and A Very Awesome Purim, an original musical production, has been playing for years in sold out venues on multiple nights, with an audience that rarely comes to organized Jewish events. This is where Tribe 12 came in. Tribe 12 partners with individuals who support such a creative combination of the arts, Jewish innovation, and community to help them reach a larger audience — and then make sure that audience can find out about other “awesome” Jewish opportunities throughout the year. That mutual drive to challenge expectations led to Josh becoming a Tribe 12 Fellow and a partnership that continues!

Be in the Now, Watch What’s Next

Polly, West Philly

]Polly, a young professional working in Philly’s theatre scene, saw a post about a new leadership development program from Tribe 12, and it sounded like just the thing she was looking for — developing concrete professional skills while finding an “in” to the Jewish community. The program was a pilot, an experiment for Tribe 12 to test our own research about what today’s 20s/30s are looking for in professional development. We used the experience of Polly and her cohort to transform the Tribe 12 Fellowship into what it is today — a Jewish space to explore a person’s emotional intelligence, entrepreneurial ability and philanthropic sensibility. And for Polly? She found a whole new crew of Jewish friends, became a member of Tribe 12’s community workspace Tribe Commons, and took a job working for a Jewish communal organization. Win-win!

 

Act as Guides, not Authorities

Julie, San Francisco

Julie’s first contact was at Tribe 12 Happy Hour, a first Thursday tradition going back over 15 years in Philadelphia. She enjoyed being in Philadelphia, and attended numerous after-work events hosted by various Philly communities. Day-to-day, Julie worked for a small company with a national team, so she spent many hours working alone in her apartment. That fateful day at happy hour, a staff member told her about Tribe Commons, Tribe 12’s community work space. Julie joined as a member just a few short weeks later. Tribe Commons had an enormous impact on Julie’s life — a community workspace not only gave her a place to go each day, but also gave her some much-needed office friends. Tribe Commons led Julie to became a regular at Tribe 12, introduced her to what became her enormous friend network, and ultimately gave her easier access to Philly’s vibrant Jewish community. One day Julie attended a women’s event that changed her life. Over Shabbat dinner, Julie met a Tribe 12 board member who gave her guidance and mentorship and challenged her to follow her heart. Totally inspired, Julie quit her job and moved to Guatemala to learn Spanish, teach English, and embed herself in a totally new vibrant local community. Now back in the states, Julie has brought her renewed sense of purpose and worth to her new job working for an international Jewish community organization.

Be the Most Fun

Donna and Marti

It’s a Philly tradition since 1998: Tribe 12’s First Thursday Happy Hour. How many have been introduced to the Philly Jewish scene with a free drink when they came to their first event, and how many people have become regulars over the years? Marti and Donna were regulars at many scenes around town, both Jewish and Philly, but the Tribe 12 happy hour was a favorite for the chance to check out the best watering holes in town, and mostly for the people. This is where they made so many of the friends that filled their social life on all the other days of the month. They were always the first to arrive and became the unofficial greeters, making each person, both new and old, feel welcomed. Their unofficial status soon became official as they joined our programming committee as volunteers and became two of the best ambassadors Tribe 12 has ever known! 

Listen & Respond

Warren, NYC

In 2005, there was not a lot happening for Jewish 20s and 30s in Philly. There was definitely nothing if you were Jewish and LGBTQIA+ and looking to build a community with others who shared this dual identity. Warren was working in the theatre community, involved in a local chavurah (prayer group), and occasionally hosted friends for a Shabbat dinner. He came to Tribe 12 with the question of how to build the community he was seeking. It only took an hour of chatting to make an easy decision — if Warren would step up as a lead volunteer, Tribe 12 would back the project. Queer@thecollaborative was born, which later morphed in Spectrum Philly and is today Tribe 12 LGBTQIA+. As for Warren, his volunteer roles soon led him to a career as a Jewish communal professional, where he is currently the Executive Director of an organization that advances the understanding of Jewish scholarship.

Rock a City Vibe

Dillon, Northern Liberties

Philadelphia is a city of neighborhoods, each with its own distinct personality. Dillon lived in Northern Liberties and he was always looking for things to do locally. When he saw Tribe 12 was hosting a NoLibs scavenger hunt, he was down! One event in his neighborhood led to Dillon becoming a regular at events all around town, from a food truck festival in the Gayborhood to Jewish Graduate Student Network​ events in West Philly. Dillon later told us he only came to his first event because it was close to home, but the people he met quickly convinced him there was a Jewish community for him.

Meet People Where They Are

Davinica, South Jersey

Davinica went to a small arts college with less Jews than there are fingers on her hand. Even though she was in Philadelphia, her university experience did not include Jewish connection of any kind. She also grew up in a family with multiple religious identities, so she was unsure of where or if she fit into the Jewish community. That changed senior year when she saw a post for an internship with Tribe 12. What started as a professional opportunity soon became much more. During her internship, she learned about the many organizations with whom Tribe 12 partners, so when a space became open in the local Moishe House she applied and was soon the newest resident! She became a Tribe 12 Fellow in 2018 where she made lifelong friends and, just to complete her Tribe 12 bingo card, joined the organization shortly afterwards as a staff member!

Everyone Can Level Up

Lauren, Queen Village

Lauren first came to a Tribe 12 event purely to have fun and make some new friends. Capture the Flag was the event — a chance to be nostalgic about camp and summer fun. She met some people she liked and started coming to First Thursday Happy Hour. Then she saw on Tribe 12’s Instagram that Tribe 12’s volunteer-led acapella group, the Chailights, were holding auditions. Lauren loved to sing — and this was exactly the kind of thing she was looking for.  After about six months of coming to the weekly acapella rehearsals and performing Hebrew and popular songs with the group (many of whom became her best friends) she took on the role as co-leader. When a Tribe 12 staff member invited her to apply to the Tribe 12 Fellowship to learn about leadership and entrepreneurship in order to make sure the Chailights would continue, she jumped on the opportunity! The Fellowship opened her eyes to larger possibilities — she founded a nonprofit, KEYhillah, a national network for post-collegiate Jewish acapella groups, so that more people can have experiences just like hers. 

We’re Jewish

Ali, University City

Ali was new to Philly and was actively seeking ways to connect Jewishly in her new city. She had heard about Tribe 12 but was not sure it was for her.  Tribe 12 has a reputation for being a whole lot of fun — a great place to meet new friends and potential “baes” at great events.  Ali felt she might be younger than many that attended events and was religiously more observant than many of her peers, so was not sure if she should reach out to Tribe 12. We’re so glad that she did! Within less than a year, Ali found the network of Shabbat dinners Tribe 12 promotes, became a Tribe 12 Fellow, and on a recommendation from a Tribe 12 staff member traveled to Israel with Friends of the Israeli Defense Forces, where she is now an active volunteer.  

It’s About the Individual

Caroline, Rittenhouse

Caroline is what some might call the quintessentially “engaged Jew.” She is from an interfaith family with a strong Jewish identity, grew up in a Conservative synagogue, attended Jewish day school, and volunteered with Jewish organizations. However, as a graduate student and young professional, Caroline did not find outlets to engage with Judaism like she had in the past. She came to Tribe 12 through the Tribe 12 Fellowship, which provided her with a Jewish lens for the social enterprise she wanted to develop. Before beginning the Tribe 12 Fellowship, Caroline hadn’t realized that she was missing the integration of Jewish thought and practice into her professional life. In her time as a Fellow Caroline gained new perspectives and some of her greatest personal and professionals supporters in Philadelphia. Caroline’s positive experience in the Fellowship led her to seek out Tribe 12’s in-house matchmaker who introduced her to a handsome rabbinical student, Nathan–her now-husband and father of their daughter!

Our Story

Something troubled Annabel Lindy.

Annabel and her husband, Phil, were happy. Phil had business success and was known as a kind and fair leader. They were both active Jewish community members. They were generous philanthropists. They raised three great kids.

Yet despite making Judaism a central part of her family’s upbringing, Annabel watched all three of her children reach adulthood without finding meaningful connections with Jewish institutions. She saw a generation emerging of adults who were now too old for Jewish college life like Hillel, but not yet ready to get married and enter the family-centered synagogue world. The question nagged her: 

What happens to one’s Judaism between college and marriage?

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Annabel's Answer

In the last two decades, this 20s/30s population has become a major target population for myriad national and local efforts. But in 1998, Annabel was the only one talking about this demographic. She convened a group and formed what at the time was called ‘The Collaborative’ -- a consortium of Jewish organizations in Philadelphia who would reach out to unaffiliated 20s/30s.

An initial gathering of 10 people grew to a mailing list of 1,000 over the first five years, with social events, interest groups, and original programming peppering the calendar. She pushed the consortium to trendspot and trailblaze, to respond to the true needs of 20s/30s where Jewish connection became an added bonus. 

When Annabel passed in 2010, she gave her blessing to found and endow an independent organization, Tribe 12, with her husband Phil as the founding President. Today, Tribe 12 engages over 4,000 people a year in its virtual and in person offerings.

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