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Matchmaking

Matchmaking

The Perfect Match

Looking to date in Philly’s Jewish community? Meet up with our in-house matchmaker for a video chat! She’ll learn about you and the kind of person you’re looking for to start keeping an eye out for you — to set you up with someone great, invite you to dating events and connect you with communities where you can meet like-minded people!

If you enjoy the experience, we hope you’ll consider making a $36 donation to Tribe 12 to help many more people get set up in the future.

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What's changed since we've gone virtual?

Read our update in the Jewish Insider
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I never in my wildest dreams would have thought that I would meet my future wife because we were both involved in a Jewish organization, but sure enough, we did meet – and like many people we are eternally grateful for the chance that we got.

How We Do It

Singles events that don’t suck

Inside scoop on other rooms you should be in

Personal introductions

We're proud to have created the rare Jewish dating space which is accessible regardless of a person's gender identity or expression, sexual identity, or commitment preferences!

We love that people of all abilities have found their place here! We are eager to provide accommodations upon request so everyone can fully participate. 

All backgrounds, lineages, races, ethnicities, levels of practice and countries of origin are welcome and celebrated in our matchmaking work.

An Easy, Casual Alternative to Dating Apps

Our in-house matchmaker wants to be in your corner. Danielle takes the best elements of traditional matchmaking and applies them to modern dating with Jewish singles, offering a casual and personalized alternative to the online dating jungle — and it’s the only service of this kind in the country.

Danielle Selber
About the matchmaker

Danielle is a lifelong Philadelphian with tons of love for the city's vibrant Jewish community. She is also an American-Israeli dual citizen and Hebrew speaker with both Ashkenazi (Ukrainian) and Sephardi (Moroccan) roots.

Danielle received her Masters in Jewish Studies from Gratz College where she completed a thesis on trends in secular Jewish dating. She is also a graduate of YentaNet’s ‘Matchmaker and Leadership Institute’ and Marriage Minded Mentor’s ‘Matchmaker Academy’ and is trained in two forms of facilitative mediation. She is a proud member of ROI and the Neshama Association of Jewish Chaplains (NAJC).

Fun fact: Before joining our team, Danielle was a Tribe 12 Fellow!

As seen on...

Slate's 'Working' podcast
eJP x Jewish Insider
Make Me A Match documentary
The Jewish Exponent

As someone who frequently feels 'not Jewish enough' I feel very accepted and welcomed at Tribe 12. I never feel that I am not doing enough or 'should' do more.

Coming up...

May 18 | 12:00 pm - 1:00 pm

Philly/Israel Speed Dating

June 8 | 6:00 pm - 9:00 pm

Tribe 12 Summer Kick Off Happy Hour!

May 24 | 6:30 pm - 9:00 pm

LGBTQIA+: Queeraoke

Past events

February 14 | 3:00 pm - 5:00 pm

(sold out) Let’s Talk About Disabled Sex Virtual Workshop

February 19 | 7:00 pm

LGBTQIA+ Dating: Powerpoint Slide…Into My DMs!

March 30 | 6:00 pm - 9:00 pm

LGBTQIA+: Queeraoke

I wanted to say THANK YOU for this incredible experience. I am so happy I have amazing friends that encouraged me to be a part of this speed dating event, and I loved every moment. I have given up on the apps for a couple of weeks now, as I have felt there is no proper connection. So this gave me a bit of the confidence I needed to keep looking for love, in a very original way. 

Matchmaker's blog

The Problem With Valentine’s Day, According To Our Matchmaker

Happy National Singles Day! Kind Of!

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Matchmaking FAQ

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Do I Have Too Many Deal Breakers?

ICYMI: Top Five Philly First Dates

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Meet Danielle!

About a hundred Jewish young professionals from around the world gathered together in Israel for the ROI Summit.

Is It Important to ‘Date Jewish’?

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I just wanted to say thanks for introducing me to my boyfriend. We've been officially together since early August and I'm meeting his parents next week for the first time. He's super great and cool and quirky, and I'm glad I met up with ya for coffee!

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Looking for more?

Browse our calendar to find upcoming experiences or interest groups where you can meet like-minded people, regardless of whether it's a "dating event" or not!

Join our closed Facebook group, Curating Dating for Pandemic Semitics, exclusively for 20s & 30s dating in Philly's Jewish community during these wild times. 

Seeking even more guidance and hands-on help? Here are some of our favorite matchmakers and dating coaches!

Michal at Three Day Rule
Aleeza at Marriage Minded Mentor
Lori at Saw You at Sinai
Jessica at Fass Pass to Love
Shana at Curated Connections
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We met thanks to Tribe 12!

Tribe 12 helped us find each other!

Thank you for introducing us!

We're grateful to Tribe 12!

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Ready?

Set a Date with Tribe 12's In-House Matchmaker!

After you submit, you'll be redirected to more information about Tribe 12's matchmaking initiative. If it sounds like a good fit, you'll be able to book a spot on our matchmaker's calendar.

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